Attachment | Secure | Comfortable with intimacy and autonomy | Trusting, empathetic, stable, resilient, open | 100-110 | High | No | N/A | Yes | Connection | Communicates | High | Low | Healthy baseline |
Attachment | Anxious-Preoccupied | Craves intimacy but fears abandonment | Clingy, insecure, sensitive, worried, dependent | 95-105 | Moderate | Yes | CBT, Psychodynamic | Yes | Abandonment | Seeks reassurance | Medium | BPD | Often rooted in childhood |
Attachment | Dismissive-Avoidant | Avoids closeness, prioritizes independence | Detached, self-reliant, aloof, private, logical | 100-115 | Low | Yes | Schema Therapy | Yes | Dependency | Withdraws | Low | NPD | Masks insecurity |
Attachment | Fearful-Avoidant | Desires closeness but fears it | Mixed signals, distrustful, ambivalent, guarded, shame | 95-105 | Low | Yes | Trauma Therapy | Yes | Rejection | Push-pull | Low | BPD, PTSD | Linked to trauma |
Personality | Narcissistic | Inflated self-importance | Grandiose, entitled, charming, manipulative, dismissive | 105-115 | Low | Yes | CBT, Psychodynamic | Difficult | Ego loss | Blame others | Low | BPD, ASPD | Often masked |
Personality | Borderline (BPD) | Emotional instability | Impulsive, intense emotions, reactive, moody, unstable | 90-105 | Moderate | Yes | DBT | With effort | Abandonment | Self-harm, anger | Variable | Misdiagnosed bipolar | Emotion regulation needed |
Personality | Antisocial (ASPD) | Disregard for others & rules | Deceitful, aggressive, reckless, cold, impulsive | 85-110 | Low | Yes | CBT | Rarely | Power/control | Violence | Very Low | Psychopathy, NPD | Risk to others |
Personality | Psychopathy | Extreme antisocial behavior & detachment | Superficial charm, unemotional, calculated, cruel, detached | 110-130 | Very Low | Rarely | None effective | No | Control/domination | Cold, calculated | Very Low | ASPD | Highly manipulative |
Personality | Codependent | Overly reliant on others for worth | People-pleasing, low boundaries, insecure, reactive, compliant | 90-105 | Moderate | Yes | Family Therapy, CBT | Yes | Fear of abandonment | Over-involved | Moderate | Co-narcissist | Cycles from upbringing |
Personality | Bipolar | Mood swings between manic & depressive states | Impulsivity, energy shifts, highs/lows, erratic, mood-driven | 95-110 | Moderate | Yes | Medication + CBT | Manageable | Biological imbalance | Mania or shutdown | Normal | Misdiagnosed BPD | Emotional & chemical |
Personality | Histrionic | Excessive attention-seeking | Dramatic, flirtatious, emotional, approval-seeking, easily influenced | 100-110 | Low | Yes | Psychodynamic | Yes | Rejection | Overreact | Medium | BPD, Narcissistic | Emotion-driven |
Personality | Paranoid | Deep distrust of others | Suspicious, guarded, defensive, cynical, hypervigilant | 105-115 | Low | Yes | Cognitive Therapy | Difficult | Betrayal | Withdraws | Low | Schizoid, ASPD | Reality testing needed |
Personality | Dependent | Submissive, clingy behavior | Fear of abandonment, indecisive, passive, seeks reassurance, avoids conflict | 95-105 | Moderate | Yes | CBT | Yes | Rejection | Cling | Medium | Anxious attachment | Low autonomy |
Personality | Schizoid | Detached, limited emotion | Introverted, solitary, flat affect, indifferent, withdrawn | 100-110 | Low | Sometimes | Talk Therapy | Possible | Invasion | Withdraws | Low | Autism spectrum | Often misunderstood |
Personality | Obsessive-Compulsive (OCPD) | Order and control obsession | Perfectionistic, rigid, work-focused, critical, rule-bound | 110-120 | Moderate | Yes | CBT | Yes | Loss of control | Overcontrol | Medium | Anxiety disorders | Not OCD |
Personality | Dark Empath | Uses empathy manipulatively | Charming, intuitive, controlling, strategic, deceptive | 110-125 | Low | Maybe | Self-awareness Therapy | Difficult | Influence | Charm then exploit | Medium | Narcissistic | Blends empathy & manipulation |